Procrastination

Rooting out the underlying fears causing my procrastination is a perfect morning meditation.

I don’t journal nearly as often as I should, it’s a great way to get to the root of my self- created distress.

It helps to have such non-judgmental bedmates

Who will I be at 80?

Somehow I turned 60 last year without ever experiencing my 50’s. I was so focused on surviving a rare blood disorder, launching sons, paying the mortgage, and just generally keeping my nose above the water line that a decade screamed by.

So I’m asking me, and all of you, who do I want to be at 80 and how do I get there? Consciously? Intentionally? Joyfully?

Let’s figure it out together

A wee bit easier

And then one day you realize that life is just a tiny bit easier. Some of the heavy slogging is behind you, some of the self doubt and second guessing is over, and suddenly the sun is shining a wee bit brighter.

It’s been a tough couple of months but maybe summer is ready to enter my heart ❤️

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#shineyourlight #beyourself❤️ #speakyourwords #tellyourstory #mouse #miceofinstagram #dandelions #greatquote #dailysketch #dailypractice #leatherbound #sketchbook #sketch_daily

Hope is work

There are friends around me who are despairing of the current situation.

This helps no one.

The only way we can make needed changes is for everyone to pull together, full strength, to overcome the evil being done.

Because, to steal a line from the other side, all lives matter. Black, brown, beige, immigrant, children, elderly matter just as much as middle age white men.

It’s time to put the power with the masses, not the money.

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#shineyourlight #speakyourwords #hope #hopes #hopematters #cuteanimals #animalsketch #desmondtutu #greatquote

Speak your story

Tell your story , out loud!

Too many people hide behind a smile, or a polite hello. They never let anyone see behind the mask.

How will they ever find their tribe? How will anyone know how great they are?

Be who you are, even if you’re a bit goofy.

But if you’re mean, go right ahead and keep that hidden. There’s enough of that in the world already thanks

Watch who you’re throwing shade at please

Someone made a few disparaging comments directed at me the other day. But here’s the thing;

A) I’m far from perfect

B) I’m aware of my imperfections

C) your opinions of my imperfections are just that, your opinion, see item B.

D) I care very little about your opinion of my imperfections

E) I’m working on my imperfections, are you?

F) more important than any of this is, aren’t the eyelashes on this sketch adorable?

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Everyone has a story

“Everyone has a story that will break your heart. And, if you’re really paying attention most people have a story that will bring you to your knees” Brene Brown

We have been trained to pretend that everything is wonderful. If anyone asks how we are we say “oh I’m fine, how are you”.

When did this happen? How did it become weak to acknowledge our lives are imperfect? Believe me, if the clerk at the grocery store asks, yep tell them you’re great. But we do this with real friends, family and spouses.

There must be a way to break the perfection myth without seeming like a complainer.

What do you think?

How? Why?

It’s been a long time since I posted here. Not because of laziness, but because this blog never felt genuine to me.

I’ve been hiding behind platitudes and cute sketches, over the next few weeks this blog will re-emerge as a more truthful statement

Cheers,

Kc

It’s still bigotry

If you are indignant about people kneeling is silent protest but not about the inequalities in this country, ask yourself why.

As a kid I remember being taunted with “dirty Jew” and other phrases. But I have a choice, I’m white, no one needs to know I’m a minority. Though to be honest, I “look like a Jew” with kinky hair and olive skin. People with skin other than beige have no choice. We shouldn’t have to try and hide our heritage.

Everyone pontificating about the sanctity of the national anthem should stop for a moment and think about worrying about your child every time they left the house just because they are a minority.

Just think about it,

And then get off your soap box so you can help fix this damned mess

The sun rose orange

1000 have died in floods this summer in India, Pakistan, Nepal and Bangladesh.

Who knows how Houston will recover, I mean the poor not the rich. Who gives a crap what ethnicity is helping what ethnicity there?

Wild fires are searing Canada and the western United States. Our sun is apocalyptic orange due to the smoke.

It is the responsibility of everyone to stop being part of the problem. At least stop using devisive words. Remove “Snowflake” and “Trumper” from your vocabulary.

If we all put as much effort into helping instead of hating, life would get a lot better for a whole lot of people.

Including us

Reinvest your energy.